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A Christmas message from BCW Counselling in Christchurch & West Moors, Bh23 and Bh22 | Tis the season to be jolly, stressed, overwhelmed and anxious.|

  • jamesrolph
  • Dec 17, 2025
  • 2 min read

Christmas is often described as a joyful time, but for many people it can feel overwhelming and emotionally exhausting. If you’re finding this season difficult, you’re not alone. The privilege of being a  counsellor in Christchurch and West Moors means I see first hand how Christmas can bring financial strain, social pressure and the expectation to feel and be happy when that might not be how you feel. The pressure to attend gatherings, see family members who you may have complicated relationships with or keep everything “together” can increase anxiety and emotional stress.

Counselling services providing help with bereavement, adhd, relationship support and self-esteem near Christchurch and West Moors (Ferndown)
Counselling services providing help with bereavement, adhd, relationship support and self-esteem near Christchurch and West Moors (Ferndown)

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For some, this may be a first Christmas without a loved one, bringing grief to the surface when others seem to be celebrating. For others, it could be the first Christmas after a relationship breakdown, or a reminder of milestones that haven’t gone as planned. These moments can quietly impact confidence, self-esteem, and emotional wellbeing.


Counselling services around Dorset in Christchurch BH23 and West Moors BH22 near to Ferndown, Verwood BH31, Wimborne BH21, New Milton BH25 the New Forest, Hampshire.
Counselling services around Dorset in Christchurch BH23 and West Moors BH22 near to Ferndown, Verwood BH31, Wimborne BH21, New Milton BH25 the New Forest, Hampshire.

Services available in Christchurch and West Moors providing Counselling for ADHD, Anxiety, Low Confidence, bereavement and relationship support


If you’re living with ADHD, anxiety, or low self-confidence, Christmas can feel even more intense. Changes in routine, noise, and constant demands can leave you feeling drained or on edge.


Counselling services in Christchurch and West Moors near to Ferndown, Verwood, Wimborne, New Milton, the New Forest offering a safe, supportive space to talk openly. You don’t have to feel festive to deserve support. Remember to take care of your mental health this Christmas and try to be kind to yourself whatever this time of year means to you.


I wish you the courage to do what makes you happy this Christmas and hope it brings you peace.


Best wishes,

James,

BCW Counselling, Christchurch and West Moors 



 
 
 

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